You got this

Every 365 (sometimes 366) days, we have a chance to start over … to hit the refresh button. The majority of us will make firm resolutions for the new year and never stick to it beyond the first weeks or months of the new year. You see, what they forgot to do was to realizeContinue reading “You got this”

Be the dream person.

Relationships are probably the most complicated aspect of life any human will ever have to deal with. It is a constant war out there. A war to find and conquer the love of your life … and then to keep that person. Deep down, that’s probably what we all want … that one person withContinue reading “Be the dream person.”

I see you.

I have never been someone who saw people based on the colour of their skin. Even as a child growing up in Despatch, South Africa, there were some people who I associated myself with and others I would rather avoid. These were white people, like me. I grew up during the height of Apartheid. WeContinue reading “I see you.”

Break the habit … permanently.

I was overwhelmed by the number of people who reached out to me after I published “How have I remained completely sickness free for the past six years?” Each one had their own little situation going on … fighting their own little demons or battles. While each of their situations and battles seem huge inContinue reading “Break the habit … permanently.”

The alienation of my son, Sam (#001)

The date was 26 March 2010. My daughter and I rented a beautiful four-bedroomed house in a sleepy and peaceful seaside village on the outskirts of Port Elizabeth. Our situation was beautiful and in control. We were a happy little family of two. I was a very loving father and Little Jay was just aContinue reading “The alienation of my son, Sam (#001)”

Introduction to my Blog

Welcome to my blog. This is a huge moment in my life … one I have been dreaming of for a very long time. This is just a short introductory note to tell you what you can expect from this blog. I will cover various topics ranging from my true life experiences, my adventures, myContinue reading “Introduction to my Blog”